Finding the
dream man for you in the first place is a daunting task and getting him back
after losing him once is even a bigger issue. Still it is very often seen that
women be in a fulfilling relationship only for a while and end up wondering how to get your ex-boyfriend
back.
It is very rare
for us women to find the perfect guy for us. Since we only got one life to
cherish the worldly love of this man it is important to keep the relationships
we have instead of looking for emergency exits after every small bushfire. The
secret to a happier life ever after is to think before you leap and this is a
challenge which I have seen very few courageous women have won.
Human
personality has many aspects to it, if you see yourself loosing respect in the
eyes of the man you love don’t take it light. Here is a little on what you can
do to earn the love and respect for yourself that you and only you deserve from
your boyfriend.
How to Prevent His Negative Response
·
Don’t put a stop to the
“getting to know you” part too soon after starting the relationship. You found
a good guy, met him few times only to find out he is more than just regular
good……. Now don’t just stop there…. Relationships are not built overnight and
you need to work out many issues before finding solitude of matrimony.
·
Give yourself the opportunity
to find cause and cure for the differences between you and your partner. After
a break up you only loose contact with your man. You still got your love for
him and your self-respect intact. These are the two things that will help you
build the bridge leading back to his heart.
How to Mend the Broken Relationship
·
Don’t give way to biases towards
or against him and blame everything on either you or him totally.
·
Try listening to and
understanding his perspective on the issues of dispute. A mature lover would
never let the love of her man die out in the face of small adversities and
arguments. Communicate with him.
·
Filter out a list of all
accusations from his side which you think are quite justifiably putting forth. Judge
your stance and acknowledge to him that you are ready to make reasonable amends
to yourself if need be.
Many a times we
lose our love to mere misunderstandings, small disputes and personality
clashes. This is mainly because we quickly lose respect for or forget the value
of someone after having attained their romantic attention. We forget that long
lasting relationships ask for more than just romantic affiliation. So if you
are wondering how to get
your ex-boyfriend back after an
abrupt breakup you should begin by pondering over his side of the story, be
open to his criticism, get to know his likes and dislikes. It takes emotional attachment, companionship
and a strong bond of compassion and care to keep the relationship intact in the
wake of short term dispute.
