How to Get You Ex Boyfriend Back - Second Chance Message

Losing your relationship with your loved man is already an awful experience, and it is much worse that if you have made stupid mistakes as you don’t know how to get your ex boyfriend back. Now, you have still chance to get him back if you did wrong things after your breaking up, but if you haven’t messed up the things yet, it is much better for you.

How Should I Write a Message for a Second Chance?

Here is a something unusual: write him a handwritten letter. This may sound old school, but it became uncommon in today’s world. Therefore, it has more chance to get read than a text message or an Email. The best time to write the letter is after few days from the breaking up, and before showing any kind of act aroused from desperation. Of course,  it is still useful if you made some mistakes after the separation as I stated before.

You just shouldn’t write this letter if you and him are rekindling an old relationship. In this case, it would be weird and useless.

The Purpose of the Message:

The main aim of the message is expressing him that you feel OK with the breaking up. When you do this, his mind will be available to miss you again. Take your attention that I said “his mind will be available” since it is not even available to miss you right now.

At this point, let me inform you about some psychological facts:

1. Humans have a tendency to take things for granted

2. Humans fight much harder to save from losing something than to gain something.

3. Humans tend to desire what they cannot have.

4. Humans tend to desire even more what is JUST out of their grasp.

Additionally, by learning how to get your ex boyfriend back, you will have learned more facts about the human mind such as how to increase curiosity or intrigue that help the letter to be more efficient.

How to Write the Second Chance Message:

Now, I will try to help you by showing you a sample message for this stage. But first, you should know about the main structure of the message; so you will be able to adjust the sample to your own situation.

Remember: Your main objective is stating that you have accepted what happened. Now, the first thing you should do is apologizing briefly if you acted desperately, crazy or did something which might hurt him. Make sure the things you apologize are small things. Be careful not telling if you had an affair. Again, keep the apologize section short. 2 or 3 sentence will be enough.

Second, you should express the happiness within your life. This will pique his curiosity. Just write something that would make you happy. It doesn’t have to be a big thing. You will do this just to draw a picture about you in his mind that you are a happy and lucky person.

At this point, you should be careful about not to lie! You can find something that made you happy. Even if you cannot find any single thing, just mention that something fortunate happened, and you are truly happy about it; but do not tell what it is.

Now, the moment that your boyfriend imagines you as happy and lucky is the point you got your second chance; though you will not probably see the tangible results immediately.

In the closing tell him that you think both of you may need some space and time, and you will try to live the best on your own at least for a while.

So, use this uncommon trick and it will work well; but do you know what will you do after writing this message? In order to achieve your goal, you have to be sure about how to get your ex boyfriend back. Otherwise, you will mess up everything again. Therefore, I advise you to join the free newsletter as it will provide you step by step guide: how to get my boyfriend back.