While you are trying to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back, you will learn that apologizing is necessary. However, if you do not apologize in a proper way, you will see negative effects instead of expected positive ones. Therefore apologizing in a proper way is crucial in getting your ex boyfriend back. Now, let's look at this terrible situation which arises from wrong type of apologizing:
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Julia: I’m sorry that I got you in a hard situation
there.
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Tom: Saying you
are sorry ain’t going to cut it…
(Julia seems pissed off)
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“I said I WAS
SORRY!”…”What else can I do?”
(And you know how the rest
goes)
So, if Julia cannot apology effectively to get tardy, what is the meaning
of apologizing? Is it because to get in a bigger argument and make things
worse?
Here, you should think about
the correct way of apologizing which would be effective:
Julia: You must be frustrated
and angry with me.
Tom: Yes.
Julia: I understand. I felt
extremely sorry there because it was vital for me… and let that get in the way
of our relationship. I’m sorry for getting you down. I know it is not an
excuse. I want you to know that I feel so terrible for getting you down…
(And they sit down and talk,
instead of having an argument)
What is undoubtedly crucial too
is that Julia never says he was WRONG for that situation. She says how he feels
and that she is responsible for the rift in the relationship.
See the difference. The key is
taking responsibility for the rift in
the relationship.
In order to understand how
to get your ex boyfriend back well,
you should learn different elements of it and apply them correctly. Although it
may seem hard to learn many new things, plus applying them in the correct way
such as your voice tone, way of saying etc; you can handle all the things easily
if you have a guide which shows you everything step by step. In this case, the possibility
to make mistakes get minimize. You can find a step by step and free online course
here: getting your ex boyfriend back.
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