Get your ex boyfriend back: How to make him want you back – Secrets breaking up is never easy. As he puts it, "breakin' up is hard to do." Now that it is over, though, maybe you realize you were wrong for talking to your ex that night at the Christmas party. Or maybe you shouldn't have gone out with your friends until four in the morning. And now you want to get your ex boyfriend back . It's okay, take a deep breath and dry your eyes. Here are some wonderful tips that will make him want you back in his life and back in his loving arms.
1. Get Your Emotions In Order
It is time for you to face the
facts. If it was you who made the boo-boo resulting in the break up you have no
right to get angry if he walks past you with another girl on his arm. Take a
moment to get your emotions in order. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, take
responsibility for your actions and realize anger solves nothing. You will
never make him want you back in his life unless you do this. Chances are he is
only doing this to spite you anyway...to get revenge for hurting him. Learn it,
know it, live it. Once you do, you can move forward with your plan.
2. Take the High Road
Okay, so you experience moments of
desperation. You want him to speak to you just once so you can tell him how
much you love him, need him and want him. You cry every night just longing to
hear his voice. Oh the pain. BONK! This is pathetic behavior when trying to get your ex boyfriend back and make him
want you back in his life. Yes, you hurt. However, no man likes a desperate,
clingy, needy woman. Begging him to take you back is only sabotaging your
efforts. Hold your head high instead and be the confident, secure woman he fell
in love with in the first place.
3. Change You
Do not make any excuses for yourself
or your actions. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, then be
the you he needs you to be. No, do not change yourself for him, rather make
positive changes for yourself. If you were once loyal and sweet, and then lost
that part of you along the way, find it again. He needs to see these changes in
you if you have any chance at reconciliation.
4. Create a New Life Without Him
Although the point is to make him
want you back, you absolutely have to realize that two people cannot have a
happy life together unless they are happy with themselves first. You have to
have the ability to create happiness for yourself, by yourself. Once you have
this part licked, he will not be able to deny the positive change in you. You
will be irresistible to him.
5. Show Him Sincerity
When you are finished working on you
and you have your emotions in check; when lashing out in anger is no longer an
issue...once the desperate you is gone and is replaced with a solid, confident
and happy new you, then and only then should you approach him. When you know
you are being honest and sincere with both him and yourself, then it is the
right time to tell him how much you want him to want you back. Ask him to take
a walk with you, or to have a cup of coffee at a quiet cafe. Tell him where you
went wrong, and about the changes you have made. But above all, be a good
listener--this is the most important part of talking. Hear him with both your
ears and your heart. He will notice.
If breaking up is so hard to do,
then making him want you back should be a little easier. It is about releasing
your pride, your jealousy and your anger, and accepting fault for your part in
the play that is life. Acceptance and change--these are the keys to make him
want you back.
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boyfriend back useful?
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