How Face a Breakup and Win Him Back

How Face a Breakup and Win Him Back

So your ex dumped you. He left you clueless on what went wrong and why, out of nowhere, he suddenly uttered the words “Let’s call it quits.” And the next thing you know is that you locked yourself in your room. Crying. Probably you have dialed up his number a hundred times already and you still keep pushing yourself until you fell asleep.

You see, the sad reality is that a lot of women out there like you, do these senseless things when facing a breakup. True, it is not that easy to handle such kind of situation when what is involved is your emotional investment to a person. But what is important is that you keep yourself in control and you will not allow your emotions ruin your life. What matters is that even how painful the circumstances are, you dust yourself off and continue with life.

But then, deep inside you still want him so bad and still hoping that one day he will come back and realize his mistake. However, in order to win him back, you have to understand the psychology of man as a social being. There is no shortcut on how to get your ex boyfriend back but at least, taking this friendly advice and not rushing in will surely make him go back to you in time.

It is important for you to know and realize that men think, act and behave differently compared to women. Ladies are more extrovert and sentimental type while the gentlemen often keep their thoughts to themselves and are less emotional. By knowing the basic differences, you would know what moves you are going to take in order for him to return back into your arms.

During the first few days of your break up, it is important that you give some time and space for both you to think things through. Do not ever try to call him every minute or load his inbox with your emails. It will only drive him away even more. Instead, do the opposite thing. Don’t bother to contact him. Instead, indulge yourself with some pampering treatments and enjoy the company of your best friends. When your ex sees that you surprisingly look great and happy, he will realize how stupid he is of letting you go. Man likes a woman who is intelligent, strong and independent. After all, being sexy does not only perceived as being physically attractive in both man’s and woman’s perspective.

Actually, if you are on a mission of getting your ex boyfriend back, you do not need to do a lot of effort. The more you exert energy to get him back the more you will likely fail. When your man had said he needs some space, then give it to him. It does not mean that he does not love you anymore but maybe he just has other issues that he needs to resolve. And yes, it could also mean that he’s bit choke up with your over sensitiveness and jealousy. That is why, it is important to understand and respect his decision no matter how hard it is. He will eventually come to a realization how much you love him by giving his freedom even if it is painful on your part. And that eventually will make him realize that he still cares for you and that your relationship truly deserves a second chance.