How to Deal with a Breakup and Get Your Man Back

How to win him back? Perhaps you have asked this question to yourself for a hundred times or more. The whys and hows just killing you inside. And yes, it is definitely true. Over-analyzing things won’t do you good and will not solve the problem. This is because men are simply men and whether you like it or not, there are just some innate characters of a guy that girls cannot fully understand and vice versa. And so, when your ex has told you that he needs some space, do not immediately make conclusions and start panicking. True, it is easier said than done, but unfortunately that’s how it should be.

Perhaps you might have read tons of articles about the secrets of getting back your man. You probably have joined forum sites to express your sentiments and at the same time gain moral support from other women having the same situation. Yes, these are all helpful mediums in getting some ideas and at the same time an outlet to release all your heartache feelings.

However, in order to get your man back, you need to make a certain plan and act on your goals. Do things one at a time. There is no easy way on how to get your ex boyfriend back. But with ample time of perseverance, you can have a greater chance to bring back those sweet memories you both shared.

During your fresh break up stage, try to give him the time and space he asked from you. This obviously means no phone calls and emails. Give him some time to think and a rest as well from the stressful situations you both have. This is also a good time for you to reflect and do some self-assessments of your actuations and behavior towards him and into your relationship. However, as already mentioned earlier, try not to over think the situation as it might only lead to subjective conclusions especially that you are still in pain. The same as he does, you also need some precious “I” moments. This is the perfect time for you to treat yourself and just enjoy being single. Anyway, your bffs are just a phone call away.

Instead of acting overly sentimental and crying the whole afternoon, try to get up from bed and do something worthwhile. The more you keep yourself stuck from your recent break up, the more you drowned yourself with your emotions. Instead, make an effort to keep yourself busy with sensible things and gradually regain the confidence you once lost. When your ex boyfriend see you, looking blooming and happy, he will realize the big mistake he made on letting you go. On the other hand, looking depressed and miserable will only make your ex certain of his decision to give you up.

When your ex partner realizes that you are not calling him anymore for days, which he might be expecting from you, then he would start wondering whether you have moved on or have accepted the sad ending of your relationship. You actually have reversed the situation when he’s now the one speculating and wondering what’s on your mind and why you are acting strange. And so, he will eventually realize how lucky he was to have a girl like you, sweet and understanding. Thus, giving another shot to your relationship might be on his mind too. When this happens, getting your ex boyfriend back will be a piece of cake for you.