Customizable How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

So your relationship is at the verge of a breakup, and you think it is going to do you more harm than happy to break up with the guy? There is no harm in trying to get back you think …. But that how to get your ex boyfriend back and WHY part of your route plan back to the “battlefield of love” is haunting you? Be assured that there is always a way to get back in the game right where you left it. Advice from relationship gurus, experienced lovers, couples with a history of recurrent breakups and successful make up…… its all there on the print and electronic media, if you want to get a quick recipe to tackle this disaster. Problem is the more you read them the more you get puzzled, every new article, story, advice column is about a unique problem, and whether that fits your situation or not is up to you to decide.

Most of these advices are symptomatic treatments help subside the pain and anguish but the underlying causes still remain. So instead of relying on situational tips and tricks here is a simple WHY and How list

Challenge 1: The harder I try the farther apart he becomes. Here is the Why part to this …… he needs a break and so do the needful as is required (that’s the least you can do for initial damage control). About the HOW part, to maintain distance it is best to be yourself while you are away. Trying stupid things like making him jealous (or acting drunk, drugged and abused) for attracting his attention is not going to get you far.

Challenge II Bridging the Gap and Get Him To Say What he Wants: Getting the desired response from an ex after you have done the initial damage control is the second biggest challenge. WHY?: Because the ex part is hindering normal communication between the two of you. Now HOW you can bridge that gap? Get him to on a “friends” basis trick is to go back to the basics and engage him on a “friends basis”.

Challenge III- When your man tells you he doesn’t feel the same anymore Your challenge is to stay put and make him realize that it’s not that way.  WHY because he should be able to see what lies waiting for him at the back end of the tunnel where he left you. HOW? Act like a prudent person. On a breakup period,  you are under high surveillance.  Act cool, live your life, show remorse but don’t eat drink sleep and live it!

The more you read “over the counter” X many step on how to get your ex boyfriend back lesser the chances are of securing a long lasting relationship between you two. Instead of blindly following the advice given by every webpage that ever existed on planet earth stick to the basics of human emotion and psychology. Remember that it’s not winning the game that’s important its winning the game with grace that is the goal when trying to get back you’re ex boyfriend back. Wish you good luck!