Jack
and I started off as friends of common friends, moved on to be each other’s
friends and fell straight into a romantic relationship but two months ahead of
our first anniversary as a couple I began to notice a cull in our relationship.
He started to call less. I started to complain more. He was busy and I was
haunting him like a stalker. It seemed not only that I was not important in his
life anymore … I was not IN his life anymore and to me that was infuriating and
simply unacceptable.
When
I finally managed to confront him over the issue his reply would simply be “ I
was busy and couldn’t catch up” . [Ahh….. the brutal pain of apathetic attitude
would kill a bull in an instant]. Are you okay, he then asked, perplexed over
my prolonged silence after that. There are 24 missed calls in one day on my
cell phone and 12 text messages the same day asking “where am I”, it’s really
difficult to keep you posted on every single move I make during the day, he added
ad before I knew it he hung up on me …………. The break up was quite obvious and
implicit i.e. I did not have to spell it twice.
That
moment onwards it was a big NO sign on the entrance gate of my heart for any
man with a schedule. To avoid the emptiness I filled up my schedule to the
nearest second. I would work relentlessly in my job, follow my own routine to
the finest detail and enjoy the fine night sleep after a busy day. Three weeks
later, I received the Annual Young Interns’ award at office, the promoting me
as regional head of department. Jack
called in to say congratulate me over my success (courtesy our common friend
Josh who works in the same restaurant that I do).
This
time I made use of a bit of reverse psychology and tried to be as short and crisp
in my communication with him as I possibly could. I was never free for a date
as I had to attend my orientation for managerial staff training at my
restaurant chain. I was busy attending the women in leadership conference when
he wanted to watch a football game. My mom incidentally got sick and that took
care of a plausible explanation for no time for long hours of tele-talk in the
night. It took him three months to get back through to me and get me to talk to
him on phone. We again dated for three months but I was clear on my objective,
I want to tie the knot, its either this or lets move on to our lives
individually and his answer was YES ….
I
always thought that when it comes to relationships it’s a one way road without
a U-turn and it is impossible to get your ex boyfriend back once he decides to
leave. But what I learnt from my life, I am 31 happily married so let me tell
you I speak of experience that, it is very much possible to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back
gracefully if learn to love yourself, be content in who you are and know how to
use your cards wisely. Follow us to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back.
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