Get Your Ex Back: Saying Right Things At The Right Time

Nothing can be more infuriating than having to leave a relationship in disgrace when you know you deserve the guy of your dreams more than any other girl around him. The thought of being defeated at the hands of a younger girl, a relatively cheekier chick, is horrendous, isn’t it!

This is why it is very important to keep your relationship alive and put in conscious and continuous effort to keep things tied together. The most important aspect of your relationship is keeping both you and your partner in an open communication. Many people believe that keeping personal and professional lives is wise but my views are a bit different. Keep your partner posted on matters of everyday life there is no harm discussing issue of the work place in case you anticipate those might affect routine of your personal life. This is a safe way to avoid any last minute rushes, dispute and arguments over not meeting personal commitments or chaos in household.

Also in case of any refute arguments and displeasing tension it is important to keep the communication lines open. Don’t put a stop to exchange of views, thoughts, opinions, likes and dislikes but keep a check on sending across the wrong and unintended message. The most targeted text or email response would be one that is tactful, precision quantity as well as quality. It is imperative to avoid hurtful words that move you away from your target or objective. Also it is important to be cautious lest your words will create a puddle that will make you slip and fall instead of moving back in the arms of your loved one.

The technique here is to compose your text messages or emails and use the specific phrases that will help entice your ex boyfriend’s imagination. Your words should be powerful enough h to invoke his good memories with you; remind him of the good part of the relationship to tap into the soft corner of his heart. The dynamics of the emotional tension between you and your ex would immediately change once you succeed in shifting his focus from the short term negativity to the potential long term prosperity.

Being on talking terms with your ex is the key to tapping back in the game of love, that too on your own terms. But at times when wrong and hurtful words are exchanged it becomes very difficult to keep that conversation open. You successfully do this it is best that you keep your emotions shut before opening your mouth. The good old days of everything is fair in love and war is passed. It is important to keep your ego and negativity controlled and expand respect in order to gain respect from your partner in return.

So, if you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back here is my advice negativity will foster negativity and disrespect will attract and equal but opposite reaction (pardon the pun).To an emotionally drenched and stressed you this might appear as your only option but this is not the right way how to get your ex boyfriend back. Just communicate in a correct way, keep it cool and things will fall in place when the time comes.